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Is anyone familiar with the website 321 Escorts and is it legit? I found an ad on the site for “nursingstudentNYC” out of Boston, the photos belong to the escort Fun_Dude, who used to advertise on RM out of Boston. (He hasn’t had an ad in a few years.) Not familiar with the site, wasn’t sure if anyone had experience using it? https://321escorts.com/en/nursingstudent

Spent time with him Oct 2020. Highly recommend. Arranged to meet him in spring 2021, he ended up cancelling. Disappointing, but it was handled professionally. As for videotaping, our session was an in-call, so no. Didn’t seem the type to do something that shady. But people always surprise me.

Have twice made appointments with him, that he cancelled shortly (same day) before meeting. The second time was “due to illness”... but then he was posting on his Instagram account later that day. I suppose there are scenarios where he was truly under the weather and then posting pictures of himself socializing a few hours later, but I don’t feel like doing the mental gymnastics to get there. I decided it was easier to scroll past his ad in the future.

Ad includes “#sober” and “#pnp”. Interesting combo.

LOL. JohnsonHSHungTop?

He’s like a Mercedes. it’s a nice looking model, but out of my price range. And even if I had the means to pay for it, as much as I would enjoy riding in it, I’d be thinking the whole time that there are less expensive models that would be just as enjoyable and get me where I need to go.

A name change doesn’t bother me if it’s not constantly changing. Might be trying to generate new business or attract a different type of client. But that phone number thing is strange, especially since it’s the number listed in the ad. Either he’s trying to ditch with a flimsy excuse, or a friend/partner took the phone? Can’t really make sense of it on the surface.

Oh no! Well, I suppose that’s great if it makes him happy, but... he was always on my list of guys to meet. At least I’ll still have his scene in The Horseman with Tommy Defendi. Top 5 for me.

Well, that‘s probably fair. And I would also point out that clients are extending the same level of trust to providers. I’m sure any person with a long track record of hiring has stories of providers who no-show, who aren’t who they advertised to be, who arrive under the influence, etc. (Even providers who are well-reviewed here.) Trust is a two-way street. I know certain providers require a phone conversation with clients ahead of time. I’ve always thought this is a good idea, and am surprised more don’t practice this. This can help to build trust between the two of you, while not being so off-putting and risky as demanding payment up front.

Yep. It isn’t unusual to have contractors ask for a deposit if they are going to work on repairs or updates to your home. But (1) the deposit typically serves the purpose of buying materials to work on your job, and *most importantly* (2) you would have a signed contract with the contractor doing business with you, which protects both parties. In lieu of having signed contracts in this field, I would never be comfortable with a deposit. What’s the purpose of the deposit? If I’m paying you for time or activities performed, then I will pay you once I’ve received your time and activities performed. If I’m paying you so you’ll trust me, then you’ve already indicated that you don’t trust me, so I’m not comfortable continuing the relationship. I’m sure there are other views on it, but that outlines why I will never be comfortable with the concept of a deposit.

Spoke with him (text) a few weeks ago, and yes, he’s very busy these days. IMO, he’s worth a second attempt if you’re definitely interested in hiring.

Still there, modified name: https://rent.men/HungIvyLeagueVrs

I most likely would pay him the full amount, although it would depend on the circumstances. If he lost it half way through the allotted time, and decided he would just bolt out the door, then probably not. But if he apologized, and continued to interact with you, then yes.

Met with him. Do NOT hire him, because Jay and I will be getting married and living our years out naked on an island in the South Pacific. He was great, and my only hesitation in saying that is I don’t want to share him with anyone else. ?