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About 20 years ago I took several vacations to Cuernavaca in the mountains just outside of Mexico City, and studied at the Universidad Internacional. They have a variety of immersion programs for teaching the Spanish language. One year I traveled with the Road Scholars, but other times I went alone and stayed with a family that was arranged through the school. The classes were always very small, rarely more than 5, with 1;1 tutoring available, and frequent assessments, so that you were always with others at the same level. There are many programs and schools for teaching Spanish in Cuernavaca, which makes the community very welcoming and generally easy to navigate. My classmates at the Universidad came from all over the world, as they had programs for multinational companies that wanted to do business in Mexico. There is a very well established gay community, so always a few bars and clubs, and the city has benefited from the generosity of many gay patrons over the years. The Universidad often arranges special excursions and other events. My favorite was always visiting Teopanzolco.

I've had both a paid and unpaid membership on Recon. The paid membership definitely allowed more browsing and access to "galleries," but neither one has led to a hook-up by itself, though I've used info from Recon as a cross-reference for guys I first met on other sites like FetLife and STH. As a paid member on Recon, I got repeatedly involved in message exchanges that were being used as an adjunct to some guy's masturbation fantasy. I did meet one guy on Recon, but we actually connected through SilverDaddies (later I found him on STH, too). Guess there's no one perfect site for me, but FetLife has been the most helpful for getting me reintroduced to the BDSM lifestyle.

I grew up playing "Cowboys and Indians." We'd break into teams and chase each other all over the neighborhood. I loved being captured and getting a "pink belly." My current porno fetish is watching cowboys getting a spankin' in the barn, for failing to do their chores. These days, I prefer "punishment" over getting "tortured," but being loosely bound always adds to the occasion.

I think you really do have a kinky fetish, and it's called "voyeurism!"

Does anyone on this forum engage in kinky sex?, or does the title "Fetish Forum" refer to some sort of vanilla sex, like masturbation?

Looking for info about Miles Striker, now on Rentmen for Tampa, FL, my link pasting abilities have failed. Have been looking at him as a BDSM Dom. He has two mini videos on YouTube that are very interesting. https://rent.men/MilesStriker

I've found a guy (Miles Striker) who is supposed to be a professional Dom, but can't find any reviews, though he has two really hott mico vids on YouTube...Would appreciate any info on him or other BDSM Doms on the Central Gulf Coast of Florida? My "link" skills are useless, but it should be: https://rentmen/MilesStriker

I recently found spankthishookups.com, and at first thought I had found Nirvana, worked very hard on my profile and started getting messages right away. It's a free site, and they don't even seem to have a "paid" membership, but so far it's just endless messaging. I did identify a "spanker" that I know, but even though he keeps his posting updated, I know that he is deeply embroiled with family issues that are preventing him from a hook-up. (I haven't confronted him, because he's a very skillful Dom. and I expect his family issues to end within the year). So, is this site just for spicing up our imaginations?, or do some guys actually hook-up? Are there any other sites besides Recon?, which pushes a rather expensive membership fee and is packed with posers? I've had some luck with FetLife, which has led to joining several local Munches, and even finding a private club with over 5000 sq ft of dungeon play space. I've met a lot of warm and accepting men through the Munches and Club events, had several flirtations and hook-ups, but only for sex. There are some professional male Doms in the area, and one is appealing, but has never been reviewed. (Miles Striker?)

Yesterday, I went to my first local FetLife "Munch," and sat in-between two very "big" men, both easily 6'4" and solid (all of us older and retired). They wore red name tags (Dominant/Top) and I wore a blue one (Submissive/Bottom). Both were divorced and we were all in the process of relocating to a Florida beach town, for our retirement (The Munch had been promoted to newcomers in the area). They were expressing their joy of finally getting to do things they'd never done before, when somehow each man started nudging me with his knee (we were all wearing shorts and sandals). I started to explode, but had the presence of mind to start asking about where they were living (before I had an orgasm). Turned out that I was the only one who had my own place, and they both had adult children who had "moved back in." I made a joke about how that was my greatest "asset," and they both started smiling. As we progressed through the Munch, the conversation covered various topics, lovely how being gay in 2019 seems like no big deal to so many straights (especially the kinky ones). In the parking lot, one guy kept chatting me up, making it clear that we shared the same fetish (spanking), while the other guy pulled up in his Corvette (older, recently retired men, have some great toys). I suggested that continue our conversation at my place, over some beers. That's when it started...the one "Dom" guy wanted to see my paddles, and the other one started talking about how he'd always wanted to use one, but didn't know how...so the two of us with the spanking fetish decided to give a demo (with our clothes on). I got bent over a leather chair and the "straight/divorced" top started whacking me with one of my favorite paddles. He definitely knew what he was doing and I started shifting about and moaning as he went to pick up another of my old favorites. That's when the 2nd "straight/divorced" guy who had no actual BDSM history, asked if he could try using the paddle. I stood and turned around, explaining that I enjoyed being used as a teaching instrument, but I'd have to be rewarded. They immediately got the right idea and almost popped out of their shorts. I bent back over the chair, and the 2nd guy had his chance to use the paddle. I was prepared for the worst, but apparently he was a devotee of kinky porn and had seen plenty of spanking videos. At his point I had to get my shorts off, along with everything else. The first guy had gotten ready for me, while he was coaching the 2nd guy, and had a great big cock hanging elephant style, over his shorts. I quickly pulled those shorts off, so I could get a serious mouthful. It took him a minute or two to become fully engaged, but he went right into that wonderful hip action that we all enjoy. The 2nd guy dropped his shorts to show off his cock, and I was in heaven. One cut, one uncut! I was going to invite them to the bedroom, but they just dropped down on the sofa, two grinning schoolboys who couldn't believe their luck. I was going to swallow the first load, but he knew what he wanted and pulled himself away from my throat, to give me a cum facial. The 2nd guy, uncut, wanted the same attention, but was almost too excited. It took a few near completion eruptions before I got him to swell just right. This time I got to swallow the full load. They were both polite, and one was actually chuckling, but it was almost a contest to see who could get dressed first. I felt like I was running a brothel, handing out washcloths and hand towels, but they each took a turn at giving me a full bear hug, and off they went. Today my inbox on FetLife has been alerting non-stop. I seem to have made two new friends, and at least one wants a return visit, but only with the other guy, and I think this time, he wants to get the spanking...

There's a time and place for both (in my life). Men my age rarely have what it takes to deliver a good fuck, but fortunately oral is still readily available. The younger man that stops by occasionally, enjoys ass play with fingers and toys, but I think an actual cock would be too "gay"...

You can see from Rentboy and Men4RentNow that Denver doesn't have a great escort scene, and it is Joey Bryant's current home which certainly doesn't seem to keep him very busy for one reason or another. "Out Front Colorado" is the well established gay newspaper, and they have a web edition which is updated every Wednesday. Pretty much anything going on in the gay community is referenced on their site, and at the bottom of the web page is a bar guide with links to most of the bars and their web sites. Denver has a large "young" population who are into outdoor sports. Hopefully you'll take a least one day to go into the mountains and take a little hike, the wildflowers have been amazing this year. At some of the ski resorts you can take a gondola to the top, with the option of walking back down on a fairly well established trail. "J.R.'s" is probably the most preppy bar, and it is walking distance to Charlies' (one of the first and the last cowboy bars where you can actually see guys doing the two step and line dancing. There is also The Wrangler in the same neighborhood between Colfax and 17th. The Compound on Broadway has a great hook up scene, and then downtown there is the Denver Eagle. The big dance bar is Tracks in LoDo. There are many small neighborhood bars, and there is a new place called The Black Crown which is an antique shop by day, piano bar by night. "Tops" are way outnumbered these days, so maybe you'll have that to your advantage. Hope you have a great time, there's also a great art and foodie scene going on these days.