I mean...sure, it might 'sound' hot. That feeling when you are totally submissive to someone who's going to ravage you and make you feel 90% safe and 10% scared at the same exact moment. I can't describe it, but I was lucky to have it once or twice in my life. It's mind-blowing.
Then again...it could go south in a bad way really fast and you feel 100% scared and you shut down, thinking what do I need to do to survive and then later you think oh, yeah. I have to pay this guy for hurting me.
You'd have no one to blame but yourself if things got out of hand given the provider's title.
I've asked guys at times if they know their own strength; some understand the question, some don't.