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  • About M4M Message Forums


    The primary goal of this site is to provide information to those of the gay male escort and gay male massage community, both providers of these services and their clients.  Information found on this site is designed to ensure that those involved in these activities can have the best escorting experience possible, avoid violence, remain healthy, find community services, and have access to a supportive community.  Although this site was originally designed with services in the United States, over time this site has become an international community.  

    We want to provide members with the greatest possible freedom while at the same time respecting the business needs of this site, the legal framework within which it operates, and the kinds of common decency that govern human interaction worldwide. We recognize the inherent worth of all those who come here. We will always strive to treat each person with dignity and respect and without favoritism. In return, we ask only that members abide by our rules that can be found in our Guidelines at the bottom of each page.


    Message Forum - The default view of this site is the message forum.  It is comprised of various forums. Each forum is described on the top page. Some forums are limited to certain kinds of posts. We ask all posters to respect those limitations, since doing so will help us use the message forum more efficiently. 


    Site News which provides updates about the forum such as expected down times to update the site or new features that are being introduced.

    Features & Feedback which provides members the opportunity to provide feedback and finds answers about some of the features of this site.  

    General Discussion

    The Lounge is open to threads of any general nature.  NOTE:  Discussions of a political or religious nature are far from the message forum’s original goal. However, we respect those who wish to create and join these discussions. We do ask, though, that you post threads that deal with political, war and/or religious issues in the "Political Issues " forum. Similarly, we request that you post threads that deal with technology in the "Tech Talk" forum.

    Daddy’s Den

    The Deli is an area to discuss escorts.  This is not a place for reviews of escorts, which can be submitted in the Reviews section of the site.  

    The Spa is an area to discuss masseurs and other spa services, such as body grooming.  This is not a place for reviews of masseurs, which can be submitted in the Reviews section of this site.

    Ask an Escort provides members to ask providers questions and allow for their responses.

    Male Strip Clubs is an area for reviews, discuss, and travel tips about male strip clubs and gay bars.

    Fetish Forum is a discussion of fetishes and fantasies.

    Media & Entertainment

    Political Issues is the area for discussion about politics, religion, and war. 

    Comedy & Tragedy provides a forum for discussion of the arts with separate subforums for movies, live theater, music, and opera.  

    Legacy Gallery is a place for coffee table photos that are not explicit.

    The Sports Desk is a place for sports enthusiasts to share their interest is sports.

    Literature provides a forum for discussion for all that is literary.  

    Tech Talk is a place for techno nerds’ discussions.


    Traveling Providers provides an area for providers to let members know of their travel plans.

    Traveling Members is a forum for members to share their travel plans and ask questions about their destinations.

    The Americas, Europe, and Africa/Asia/Australia are areas for discussions of escorts in those respective geographies.

    Street Scenes is a discussion of street scenes throughout the world.

    Reviews – This data base on providers allows registered members of M4M Message Forums to submit reviews on providers of escort services and massage.  The reviews are open to all individuals registered and non-registered alike to enjoy. 

    Gallery – An area that is restricted to registered members of M4M Message Forums, the Gallery may include photos of a more explicit nature than those permitted in the Legacy Gallery forum that is available to non-registered readers.

    Clubs – An area that is allows registered members of M4M Message Forums with common interest to gather.  Clubs are often geographically based.

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